Tuesday, February 08, 2005

Work Life Balance ???

Dear Blog,

How are you my dear? So what a day… Can I say it is like being in HELL? Today I have talked and talked with all those business folks and tired my jaws out. Tomorrow I think it just gets worse. Maybe I can eat more of the stuff I like so my jaws will not be in trouble. But at the thought of that makes me think about the pain that losing those pounds will give me. So right now it is about evening time in the United Kingdom and I am totally tired. I want to sleep and go home. Maybe if I have some time , I will sit down and organize the items that I want to keep here and the items that I want to take home. Did I ever think that when I first moved out here that moving back home was going to be such a organized task? NOOO…obviously not..but it is okay I will manage something..

So right now my head is pounding and need some alone time and to think without being interrupted. I am debating what should I go home and cook. Should I cook or stick with soup out of a bottle. I really want a spicy meal though but I am not sure how my stomach handles it. So guys I am a stage that I can not handle spicy foods anymore. It really sucks since I absolutely adore all the Indian spices. But it is probably good for me and will make me eat a bit healthier. So maybe another pear ??? Why not !!!..

So have you guys wondered what criteria is taken into when setting priorities? Why are some things chosen over others….I think a lot of times it is just preference that takes precedence. For some reason, why does work come over everything else. Is it the fact that we are scared to lose our job or status. I know I have recently decided that I am going to do what is right for me and not let any other entity rule over that . My loved one and my work life balance is very important to my well being and people like managers should understand that .

Ahhh cool vented…

I have a question for ya…How do you guys deal with stress???

Love ya,

Dimple

Monday, February 07, 2005

Two Days in a Row...Wowie

Dear Blog,

How are you my dear? So two days in a row. Now that is really something. Do you ever wonder why we do some of the things that we do such as hide things from other, do not provide full details, or just be plain rude? Sometimes I have wondered it is probably because we do not want to catch the evil eye. What are we really scared of … People or the inevitable??? Me personally I am afraid of the inevitable. I am always thinking so positive but at the same I am always scared of something going wrong. I have felt that I have worked so hard to get certain things in my life, such as my hunny, Chirag, that I want nothing to ever go wrong. I mean of course we will have the occasional argument but that is child’s stuff compared to the things I have seen. Life is too short to live with anger. We should all be living and smiling with all our heart and soul.

So what do you think are the entities for a happy life? For me , I think has to be around people that I love and that love me with all my friend. Right now, for me is certainly Chirag, my parents, my brother, and some of my closest friend who I adore and know will always be there for me for sure.
This weekend , I really got to thinking quite a bit and I hope with my full heart that things go right, I get the job that will work the best for us, and of course the life. It is funny how last year has changed Dimple certainly for the better. So now I going to get ready to do one task that many people are waiting for : to cook…Let the dough get rolling.

Love ya,

Dimple