so once again i am finally back in the click of things of writing my blog ...at least i think so ...it is good to believe right ..it makes the day a bit brighter...okay where did i leave off from my last blog ..it is really funny how i never know when i leave off ...so the last time i had written was on july 7 , 2004. wow that was really a while ago... as i look on the calendar now , this day was a wednesday practically 2 weeks ago...ahhh...this is so not good...how come am i slacking ... so the weekend following my last blog i had gone home to see my family and also went to a bridal shower for my friend jeannie....how can i forget i got to see my friend krishna for her birthday ...i am glad that i was able to see her ...sometimes it gets to a point that you can not always e-mail and phone people you need to see them physically and just be able to get their face expressions ..i feel like that sometimes alot for mr. c ...do you ever wonder why sometime things happen the way they do ...you make all these plans and when they don't come true it hurts..but that is reality and must face it right .. well the bridal shower was alot of fun ...met some new people and also met some old people that i had known since the first day of highschool that is mighty darn long time isn't it ..but it was nice..my little baby bro gave me a digital camera for mybirthday which i absolutely love ...it is os nice to have a digital camera and be able to show the world the snaps...i spent alot of time with my family and shopping while i was at home...man i did not realize how much i hated and loved to shop i know it is at the same time how weird can that be ......well during my time at home i also got my offer letter from boeing (yeah the big plane company) the offer was to move to virginia and work with the missile defences...after much thought and procrastination i decided not to take the offer...why...i will give you some of the reason: 1) i like being in london and travelling europe ..i am young once when am i going to be able to do this agian when i am 60 ..2) i do not want to move to virginia and live alone ..at least here i am learning about different cultures and people and i get to go straight home to my family here in nj ...3) i wanted to keep learning new things in a fast paced environment.....i think those were my main reasons not taking the offer..hopefully by GOD's grace i will be able to get a similar offer again and then settle with my hubby and plan a family... (some of you are probably laughing and/or yelling at me)......so i finally flew back to london and my new apt..it was pretty nice at the apt my roomie seems like a cool girl..and she is social like i am so it is cool...now come friday i find out that i had to work the weekend it isokay i knew it was coming ...but friday now some of us people went out to a few places in london which was so much fun got home at the wee hours in the mroning and then had to make sure made it into work...the poeple i went to london with seem like so much fun they certainly know how to keep up a conversation...saturday was work and it was so darn boring i am not sure how five hours went by ...saturday night i had invited some guys in for dinner..it was fun..i cooked my infamous chana masala..and my friend abhijeet cooked some tandoori chicken which was darn good too...my mr. c says he can cook...i gotta soooo taste his cooking...you can just imagine out of all of this i was so darn tired...sunday my friend jackie and i decided to go to leed's castle...can you believe it it has been rated the number one castle in the uk...it was really nice...ask me for the link of pictures if anyone is interested...stupidly my eye started swelling up cause of too much pollen in the air and it sucked cause i had some contacts in and it was just so darn irritating and then my train got stuck in purley on my way to london victoria and of course i missed my connecting bus...but all is well the day was nice enough after a ton of rain and got to see the castle that i had been planning for weeks...so on sunday my third roommate carol also moved in ...she seems like a great girl but i hate to say this but her and her boyfriend need to get a room...the first night she is prancing around in her undies......i think binta and i need to set some rules it is just so darn disrespectful..and get this this morning i almost saw her boyfriend (who is also my coworker) naked..i do not want to see him naked...ahhhh......how would anyone react to this...well this weekend was also a bit sad especially when reality information is being passed...sometimes you need to hear that as much as it hurts.....
till next time
my dear lovely journal..